Happy Juneteenth Ya’ll

It’s Dalton’s second annual Juneteenth Celebration Weekend and what better way to celebrate than with a few familiar brown faces.

From newly elected Whitfield County Magistrate Judge Rodney Weaver, to the county’s NAACP president Michael E. Kelley II and wife Marisa, who coordinates the Juneteenth events. To entrepreneur Debbie Madden, king Milo Ramsey, banker Talisa Hale, sibling duo Brooklyn and Bronx Stallion, the Kent brothers and future leaders Faith Cobb and Braelin Rivers.

This #JunteenthPictureProject was coordinated by entrepreneur and founder of Scalp Candy Kisha Cooper and award-winning journalist Shaka Lias Cobb.

Juneteenth will be celebrated locally with a parade hosted by the NAACP in downtown Dalton starting at 10 a.m. Saturday at First Baptist Church and conclude at The Emery Center. A short program will be held on the steps of the center followed by a mural reveal at Miller Brothers Barbeque.

Everyone is invited and encouraged to attend.

Juneteenth, also referred to as Freedom Day, is celebrated in the African American community to commemorate the end of slavery.

Gen. Gordon Granger read the executive order on June 19, 1865 in Galveston, Texas stating that all slaves were free. This announcement was two years after the Emancipation of Proclamation.

“God’s time is always near. He set the North Star in the heavens; He gave me the strength in my limbs; He meant I should be free.” Harriet Tubman

Thanks to our participants

Row 1: Braelin Rivers, Rodney Weaver, Talisa Hale, Faith Cobb

Row 2. Bronx Stallion, Debbie Madden, Tarek Kent, Milo Ramsey

Row 3: A.J. Kent, Michael E. Kelley II. Marisa Kelley, Brooklyn Stallion

Group of ladies sheds light on #SayHerName campaign

In a time when so many black men, teens and boys are losing their lives way too soon we wanted to shine a light on women who have suffered the same fate.

Introducing the “Say Her Name Too Picture Project,” coordinated by Shaka Lias Cobb, an award-winning journalist and entrepreneur Kisha Cooper, founder of Scalp Candy.

The #SayHerName campaign was launched in 2014 by the African American Policy Forum and Center for Intersectionality and Social Policy Studies according to AAPF website.

Its goal is to bring awareness to the “often invisible names and stories of black women and girls who have been victimized by racist police violence and provides support to their families.”

This project highlights seven of many women whose life was cut short and all mothers, wives, daughters, sisters and queens.

#SandraBland, 28, found hanged in a jail cell three days after being arrested during a traffic stop.

#KorrynGaines, 23, killed after a six- hour standoff with police attempting to serve a bench warrant.

#AtatianaJefferson, 28, killed inside her home after a neighbor called police for a welfare check.

#KathrynJohnston, 92, killed during a botched drug raid at her home.

#NatashaMcKenna, 37, died while in police custody after being tasered multiple times.

#BreonnaTaylor, 26, killed while in her home when officers entered without knocking or identifying themselves.

#PamelaTurner, 44, killed by one of five shots while approached about outstanding warrants.

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Special thanks to the ladies who helped create this project.

Top row

Jasmine Madden, Ebony Hampton, Tia Hawkins, Kristy Printup, Schwanna Cooper and Kisha Cooper.

Middle row

Aisha Robbs, Cassandra Pinson, Donna Myrthil, Shaka Cobb, Ansley Simmons and Venus Curtis.

Last row

Chiquita Ludy, Audrey Simmons, Catilyn Howze, Brandy White, Jackie Killings and Ashley Baker.

Bundle of unconditional love

Chris Rock jokes that a father’s only job is to make sure his daughter stays off the stripper pole. I chuckle every time I hear the commercial. It’s so true, no parent wants their daughter to strip for a living. But if she does I’m sure they’d find a way to deal with it. It’s called unconditional love. 

On December 30, 2013 I birth a seven pound three ounce bundle of unconditional love. I’ve loved before, but never like this. My daughter brings me so much joy. Everyday with her is a memory, experience and lesson. And no day has been the same.

When I learned she was growing inside of me it scared me. I wanted to protect her, keep her safe, make sure she made it here with ten fingers and toes and all her organs functioning right. 

Mission accomplished at 1:06 p.m. 

Then came more fear. 

What scared me most was failing her as a mom. I still pray that I’m doing right by her. I often wonder how can I give her what I never had. Then just as fast I whisper “Lord help me.”

Help me to show her unconditional love, for her to realize she’s beautiful, intelligent, fearless, comical, bold and inquisitive. Help me to protect her esteem and never doubt the potential she has. Help me to show her how much I love her even in times she may disappoint me in the future.

Not to omit my husband, because he’s definitely in this with me. But they have their bond and we have ours. She equally a daddy’s girl as she is a mama’s girl. 

I don’t have all the answers, I’m still learning as a mom. What I do know is that she’s my best teacher. 

Happy 3rd birthday to my little best friend. Mommy, Mom, Mama loves you. 

Happy birthday Granddaddy Ronnie

A few days ago my 2-year-old randomly pointed to her dad, my husband and asked me “Mommy is that your daddy?”

I said “No, that’s your daddy, mommy’s daddy is in Heaven.”

She looked at me like, where is that?

End of conversation, but knowing my inquisitive daughter I know it will come up again.

Yesterday I took her to my dad’s grave. A place I’ve been less than nine times since he passed nearly nine years ago.

She pushed metal flowers in the ground next to his grave, then she wanted to play with the ABC’s (the engraving).

I felt my emotions coming, so before they could I suggested we sing happy birthday and go.

In that beautiful little toddler high pitch voice of hers joined by my husband and nephew she led the birthday song. “Happy birthday to you, happy birthday to you, happy birthday to granddaddy Ronnie, happy birthday to you. Yayyyyyy.”

She clapped and as we walked back to the car for the first I felt a little peace leaving his resting place.

 

Faith and granddaddy

Faith and granddaddy

Inaugural Ronnie Phillips Single Father of the Year Award

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Introducing the first  Ronnie Phillips Single Father of the Year Award.
In honor of my late father I want to recognize a father who demonstrates some of the same qualities he did.
Nominate that special man you know (or yourself). The recipient will receive a plaque (with their name on it), feature on piecesofcobb.com blog and a tie or bow tie. The deadline is Thursday May 16, 2013 at 5 p.m. Email submissions to shakacobb@gmail.com
Four judges (excluding myself) will read and select the winner, who will be announced by May 24.

Criteria

1. Must have full custody of child for at least six months.
2. Must work full time or be a full-time student.
3. Must demonstrate the qualities of a strong man.
4. Must be family oriented.
5. Must have overcome a significant obstacle.

Submission should include the following:

Your Name:
Nominee Name:
Relationship to you:
Describe in at least 50 words why this person should be selected.

Pieces of You: In Memory of Keisha Pittman

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Takisha Pittman was laid to rest on Saturday March 16 after a funeral in Manning S.C.
On March 13 friends, classmates and fellow bikers packed out Chapel First Baptist Church in Scottdale for a Memorial Service.
Keisha, as she was known by family and friends passed away March 10 after a motorcycle accident.
The service was full of fond memories of Keisha, her infectious smile, short jazzy hair styles; love of shoes and most recently her love of bike riding. Last August Keisha became a member of the Platinum Peaches Motorcycle Club. She was the last member to join the club and first to pass away. Her MC family called her Jazzee. The ladies of Platinum Peaches did a special presentation honoring Keisha, which included a poem. The ladies along with their daughters carried a peach while Keisha’s 7-year-old son Chance carried an angel on a pillow during the presentation.
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There were other tributes to Keisha through song and a very moving video featuring pictures of Keisha as a baby, through her childhood, band photos from Lithonia High and pictures of her evolving into a woman and mother. There was not a dry eye in the house, but family friend, Bobby Foster quickly remedied that with an unforgettable rendition of the song Yesterday. Mr. Foster shared memories of Keisha as the congregation sung along while waving their cell phones in the air. The somber mood quickly turned into a mini concert, think Showtime at the Apollo, except there was no Sandman. Bobby Foster was definitely appreciated.
A co-worker described Keisha as loving, accountable, well rounded, and valuable. Lucy Dole said she will always be remembered for her big smile and high heel shoes.
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One of Keisha’s four sisters spoke. Through tears Jada Pittman said that on the day Keisha died she was heavy on her heart. She hadn’t spoken to her older sister since last summer after an argument. Jada said that morning she simply sent her sister an inbox message on Facebook saying “I love you.”
Jada said later she got the call that Keisha passed and was devastated.
“You cannot hold a grudge,” she told the congregation. “You have to let it go, let the past be the past.”
Jada said she felt a little better after friends told her Keisha received the message and planned to call her when she returned to Georgia.
Johnny Mills, special friend of Keisha’s who was traveling with her and fellow bikers spoke.
He said before they left Florida Keisha initiated prayer, he remembered during the prayer her saying “Forgive us of our sins and guide us back home.”keishaprofile
Chapel First Baptist Pastor Pierre C. Sheppard offered words of encouragement. Rev. Sheppard was Keisha’s youth pastor at Antioch Baptist Church. He told the congregation that God is too wise to make mistakes.
“You’re not here by accident, God set this day in motion way before you got here,” he said. He encouraged those that didn’t have Jesus in their lives to find him.
He quoted Proverbs 3:5 Trust in the Lord with all thine heart and lean not on your own understanding.
Although Keisha died a tragic and sudden death, Sheppard said often times people spend too much time worrying about how a person died.
Sheppard said he envision Keisha’s last moments alive right before the accident. He spoke of her leading prayer before leaving Florida, saying Keshia was alright with God.
“Just before she lost control of the bike Jesus stood up,” Sheppard said. He continued, “It does not matter how tragic one died, the tragedy is if you die without Jesus.”
He told the congregation, “Don’t leave here unsaved tonight, it’s the only way you going to see Keisha again.”

Takisha LaShay Pittman was born November 19, 1979 in Virginia Beach, Virginia to Clitel and Willie Pittman. She leaves to cherish her memory her parents, son Chance, four sisters, a brother, friends, family, classmates and fellow bikers. She was a 1998 graduate of Lithonia High School and received a degree in Health Information Technology from Kaplan University. The family started a trust fund at Wells Fargo, donations can be made to the TaKisha “Jazzee” Pittman Memorial Fund c/o Chance Stocks. The trust fund, donations are accepted indefinitely.

Pieces of You: Regina Brooks Gilmore

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In recent years Regina Brooks Gilmore has added acting to her list of things she enjoys doing. “I love acting because it allows me to stretch and challenge myself.”
Gilmore said she’s always loved entertaining people, but her real passion is modeling, something she’s been doing since the late 80s.

Although she doesn’t look it, Gilmore is a 45-year-old wife, mother and grandmother.
Additionally she wears the hat of model, actress, producer and occasionally teaching.
A native of Bastrop, Louisiana, Gilmore has called Spartanburg S.C. home for the past five years.
Since living in the Carolinas she’s done several talent shows and acting.
The television series Changes aired in April 2011 in North Carolina, Georgia and South Carolina and Virginia. Gilmore landed the starring role as Sam Richardson; she also was a producer on the show.
Two years ago Gilmore did her first stage play, Don’t Make Me Over in Greenville, S.C.
When asked who she’d like to work with, she responded.
“I would love to work with Angela Bassett because of the range of characters that she’s played. It would be a dream of mine to also work with Denzel Washington because of my admiration for him as an actor,” she said. “Not to mention he’s stellar in all of his performances.”
Five years from now, Gilmore hopes to be I’m a household name.
“I want to send a resounding message to young women that you don’t have to be naked to model and act,” she said.
Gilmore is motivated by faith in God and family, which includes her husband of 22 years Darryl, children Antonio and Tamara and two grandchildren, Dallas and Aaliyah.
“I not only have a daughter and granddaughter, but I have several nieces and female cousins who really look up to me and I want to make them all proud,” Gilmore said.
Gilmore relies on the inspiration of her late parents Evoler Brooks and Lonnie Bosworth as well as her late grandmother Sarah Brooks.
“They have all instilled a strong foundation of love for self and others in me,” she said. She adds, “They always taught me to follow my dreams no matter what. They are responsible for me being the strong woman I am today.”
Gilmore says she thanks God daily for her gifts and don’t take them lightly.
“I pray that I will be able to leave a positive and lasting impression on this earth.”

Regina is a Model/Actress/Producer. She attended University of Monroe, Louisiana and Louisiana Businesses College. She holds an Associates Degree in Accounting/Bookkeeping. Her hobbies are reading, traveling, shopping and meeting new people.

Lithonia High mourns the loss of two beloved alums

The Lithonia High School family suffered the loss of two former students over the weekend.
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On Saturday (3/9) Chalaundria Browning, 33, Lithonia passed from cancer.
Chalaundria, affectionately known as Lundy is a 1997 graduate of LHS.
Chalaundria’s viewing will be held Thursday March 14 from 3 to 9 p.m. at Tri-City Funeral Home. The funeral home is located at 6861 Main Street in Lithonia.
The funeral will be held the following day at Fairfield Baptist Church at 11 a.m. The church is located at 6133 Redan Road in Stone Mountain.
Prayers to the entire Browning family, class of 1997 and all those touched by Chalaundria’s presence.
Donations are being accepted at http://www.lhsalumni1997.com

On Sunday night (3/10) Takisha Pittman, 33 died in a motorcycle accident while traveling through Bibb County, Ga. Keisha, as she was known to classmates is a 1998 graduate of LHS.
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The first service for Keisha will be held Wednesday March 13 at Chapel First Baptist Church from 6 to 9 p.m. located at 17 Seventh Ave in Scottdale. Another service will be held Saturday March 16 at Society Hill Methodist Church at 4 p.m. in Manning S.C.
Keisha was member of Platium Peaches McATL.
The Class of 98 Reunion Committee has started a Paypal account for Keisha, all donations will go to her a family for a trust fund in honor of her son Chance. To donate, visit http://www.paypal.com and send funds to nsjw2004@yahoo.com.
A money order will be sent to Keisha’s parents.

Thank you Lundy and Keisha for blessing our lives, you’ll always be in our hearts.
To the Browning and Pittman family, may God bless and keep you during this time.

Five Days of Daddy(Day 5)

Well today would’ve been my dad’s 56th birthday. He lived 50 long years and I know that’s not very long, but when you live with Sickle Cell Anemia the way my daddy did, every year counts. I remember my grandma telling me that the doctors said he would never walk or live to see his first birthday…Hahaha doctor, he lived to see 50 birthdays and he lived every single moment of those years. Anyway I’d like to share some pictures from his last birthday party. Enjoy

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Daddy’s best friend Larry and I

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Daddy and Larry

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Me and daddy, I still have that dress

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Daddy’s long time friend Cynthia who I call Aunt Cynthia and Aunt Janice, daddy’s youngest sister

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Larry and Veronica Love

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Daddy and his youngest brother Howard

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Aunt Charlotte and Uncle Mule

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A guest pinning money on dad

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Me and Mule
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Doing some line dance with daddy! He was so much fun!

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Daddy and DOL co-workers

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Daddy dancing with his oldest sister Bobbie

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Aunt Charlotte and Uncle Mule

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One of my best friends Shea. We didn’t even plan to dress alike.

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The yummy cake.

Five Days of Daddy (Day 4)

For most of my life I was really shy. I didn’t talk to people unless I knew them, hell I hardly talked to people I did know.
I didn’t like taking pictures, I didn’t like to smile, and I was just a very mean little girl.
As I got older I began to come out of my shell, I’d say I was about 15-years-old when I finally blossomed. By 18 I got into local modeling, for me it was just for fun, but it boost my confidence a whole lot. I remember my first show at The World Congress Center, I modeled three outfits (formal, casual and African). My dad was unable to attend because he’d just had hip replacement surgery, but he watched the VHS. You would think I was walking a runway during New York Fashion Week.
He was so excited, “Look at my baby, go Shaka.” He kept rewinding and watching my part over again.
In 2005 I got the opportunity to represent my college newspaper during Clark Atlanta University’s Coronation. It was first time being in the spotlight in college, I was kind of nervous, but excited at the same time.
Nerveless, I invited everybody and their mama. It was a Thursday night and I knew it would be hard for most since it was a work week.
I’m sure I invited at least ten people including my aunt, cousin and his wife, stepmom, and a few more people.
Right as I was walking into the building to head backstage I saw my daddy. He was running unusually late. I stopped and one of my friends and a photographer for the newspaper Jerusalem Barnett (now Farmer) snapped a picture of us.
I had no idea who else was at the show. Even when I was on stage the lights were so bright I couldn’t see into the crowd.
After the program was over I went into the crowd and my dad was the only one there, everyone else had something to come up and didn’t make it.
What I remember about that night is that my dad got there right as the show was about to start, but he was the only one that showed up beaming from ear to ear.

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Daddy and I at CAU’s Coronation. Me as 2005 Miss Panther Newspaper